The Narcissism Doctor: "1 In 6 People Are Narcissists!", "Are Narcissists Better In Bed?", "Can A Narcissist Change? - Dr. Ramani Durvasula
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1 in 6 people are narcissists, so what is a narcissist and how can you spot one?
Dr Ramani Durvasula is a clinical psychologist, Professor of Psychology at California State University, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is also the author of books such as ‘Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist’, and ‘"Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility’.
In this conversation Dr. Ramani and Steven discuss topics such as, whether your partner is a narcissist, the 4 types of narcissist, why up to 50% of famous people are narcissists, and whether narcissists are better in bed.
(00:00 ) Intro
(02:08 ) Why Dedicating Your Life To Studying Narcissism
(03:10 ) The Cost Of Narcissism
(06:07 ) How To Spot A Narcissist
(12:27 ) How To Differentiate An Asshole From A Narcissist
(15:19 ) Can You Cure Narcissism?
(16:39 ) What Gender Tends To Be More Narcissistic
(18:24 ) The Types Of Narcissism
(25:07 ) How Many People Are Narcissists?
(27:21 ) Is Social Media Fuelling More Narcissists
(32:09 ) Where Does Narcissism Come From Genetics Environment
(36:06 ) Narcissism Lives In A Spectrum
(37:08 ) Are Narcissists More Successful
(40:12 ) The Empathic CEOs Are Rare
(43:04 ) Does Money Make You More Narcissistic?
(47:03 ) How Do You Know If You Are A Narcissist
(50:19 ) What People Get Attracted To Narcissist?
(53:41 ) How To Know If My Partner Is A Narcissist
(55:32 ) The Three Rs: How To Know If You're In A Negative Relationship
(59:28 ) Pathological Manipulation
(01:00:56 ) What's Projection?
(01:04:20 ) Can They Take Feedback
(01:05:55 ) Gaslighting, What Is It?
(01:10:49 ) How To Deal With Being Gaslit
(01:13:10 ) Do Narcissists Engage In Domestic Behaviour
(01:15:17 ) What Should I Do If My Boss Is A Narcissist
(01:17:31 ) Can You Get Out From A Narcissistic Person
(01:21:32 ) Can You Be Happy In A Relationship With A Narcissist
(01:23:08 ) What Is The Weak Point Of A Narcissist
(01:24:44 ) Why Don't They Like Authentic People
(01:25:51 ) Famous Narcissists
(01:31:55 ) You Can Come Back From Narcissistic Abuse
(01:34:04 ) Hardest Day Of Your Life
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